And in your case,the guy like many, chose to follow man's law. From what i understand from your post,in his culture or whatever,marrying a divorced woman with a child is not right or isnt recommended for a single never-married guy. If a believing man loves a believing woman,they agree with the dowry,ask permission to parents (as a show of respect or to honour them,their consent is however not necessary) etc marriage is permitted.
And one of them having a child from a previous marriage is not an issue. I submit to him and his law not what the world or my culture tells me, not what my parents tell me(if it is against GOD's law),not what anyone tells me.
Where i met at lot of weirdoes, but it gave it something to do when i was bored.
I loved reading your post and i must say that you r lucky, in a way that u didnt marry that guy.He was older then me, about 30 and he had never dated anyone, he was religious, kind,and educated, he seemed like everything I wanted.He flew out to meet me and stayed for the weekend (in a hotel, I didn't stay with him)I was always honest with him regarding my past and my son. He parents thought getting married and having a child right a way would be too much for him to handle. Printed From: Islami Category: Culture & Community Forum Name: Groups Men (Brothers) Forum Discription: Groups Men (Brothers) URL: TID=16548 Printed Date: 18 December 2017 at am Since the birth of my son, I have grown up.. I'm learning more about my faith and just started praying.( i was not taught how to pray as a child) We got divorced because he did not treat me right. I singed up to one of those arabic/islamic dating sites.